
Pam Kragen from North Country Times has made the telephone interview with Mombert aka Leila Lambert, Adam Lambert’s mom in connection with the Idol Tour, published on the 15th of July at nctimes.com.
Mrs. Lambert talks a lot about Adam and explains a lot of the background for his way of thinking, his earlier experience and destroys some of the myths about Adam that have occurred in the meantime.
This is a long and very interesting interview, a must read for every Adam Lambert’s fan.
Some excerpts below:
Moving to LA
I’m moving because of Adam. He thought it would be great for me to start a new life in L.A. I will be working for him. I’m not sure what I’ll do. I’ll help with the fan mail, I think, and we’ll play it by ear. I think I’ll just be a mom; that’s always been the best job in the world. (…)
It’ll be easy. We’re very close, but we won’t live together. He doesn’t need his mommy living with him, I’m quite sure. But there are a lot of things I could help him with because he’s not going to be around a lot. The hardest part for me is moving. I love my house and it’s hard to give it up, but I’m totally amazed that he wants me there. He wants me to be a part of it, and to meet the people he’s meeting. There aren’t a lot of kids out there who would want that. I’m so blessed. He’s got a really big heart.
Adam on stage on IdolTour
Just before Adam was to appear onstage,the crowd went wild. The energy was so powerful. I was asked last night by one of the fans “What was your favorite part?” and I would definitely say that as I stood there it appeared that everyone was on their feet. Watching Adam perform, I took a moment to do a 360-degree turn to take in the crowd and realized at that moment that Adam’s dream had come true. He was singing “Starlight” and I just started to cry. That was my favorite moment.
Googling Adam and the Bradam photos
I have a ritual of “Googling” Adam every morning when I get up and every night before I go to bed.
I’d seen those photos before and I’d told him to get the stuff off the Internet after he made it through the auditions. But there was one place he forgot (a social networking page for fans of the free-spirited Burning Man festival). I remember going on the Internet one morning and seeing these photos and saying to myself there’s no way this is ever going to be able to fly. He’s history.
I remember I couldn’t reach him so I called his dad, and then when I finally got Adam on the phone, he wasn’t upset at all. He said, “You know, Mom, it is what it is. Whatever happens, happens. I don’t care.” The “Idol” people said, “Do what you want to do and we’ll support it.” And Adam just said, “I’m not going to give a dissertation on it, we’ll just go with the flow.” In fact he thought it was funny that there were pictures of him online kissing girls, too, so there was some mystery that he enjoyed.
Ring of Fire – rebel
¨Q:Were you nervous every time he sang on “Idol”?
Leila Lambert: Not that he wouldn’t perform well, because he has that gift and ability to do that well. But there were times I was worried that he’d picked the wrong song. Like when he did “Ring of Fire” (performed during “Country Week” in a sitar-heavy psychedelic style). That was risky. I didn’t like it because it was eerie and strange.
Q: I remember the horrified look on Randy Travis’s face.
Leila Lambert: You should’ve seen his wife’s face. It was 10 times worse.
Q: Did you think he went too far with the provocative nature of his performances?
Leila Lambert: Yes, I definitely thought he was pushing the envelope. I told him he needed to appeal to middle America, and he said, “I’m not going to do the Cheez Whiz and compromise.”
Q: But he did switch gears after “Ring of Fire,” putting on a suit, combing back his hair and singing “Tracks of My Tears” like Frank Sinatra during “Rat Pack” week.
Leila Lambert: When I saw him come out in that suit, I couldn’t believe it. He knew exactly what he was doing. He was mixing things up and showing people another side.
Adam-Danny Rivalry
That’s a myth. They’re good friends.
Adam and Kris
They have developed an amazing friendship. Adam and Kris will be friends forever. Neither one of them has a mean bone in his body, and they are so supportive of each other. I was so happy that our families got along so well. The night after the finale was my birthday and the Allens came to my birthday party, not just Kris and his wife, but his brother and his parents. We’re also planning to meet up at one of the tour stops this summer and go see the concert together.
Mom’s feelings reading The Rolling Stone article
That was extremely hard. Everything in the article that was negative jumped out at me. I wanted him to be a little more discreet. Ever since he was 17, I’ve been telling him to be discreet. Not everyone needs to know your business. But he is very honest and open, and that’s just Adam being Adam.
All women’s idol
He finds it very flattering. He says “I like to flirt, and I flirt with women all the time.” I think the attraction is that he’s so likable. He’s got fans from 8 to 80, from little girls to grandmas. I’ve read the fan letters. They’re so sincere. It’s endearing how they reach out and how they love him and can’t get enough of him.
Not hyperactive, but precocious
He wasn’t hyperactive, but during a checkup when he was little, I did ask his doctor about Adam’s behavior because he was just nonstop. The doctor said “No, he’s not hyper, he’s precocious. He’s just very aware of everything around him.
The look
He was always experimented with his hair. I remember one time he came down the stairs after a bad home dye job and his hair was carrot orange. We had to call his friend Danielle’s mother, who’s a hairstylist, for a hair emergency. When he first dyed his hair black several years ago I thought it was too dark, but now I can’t imagine him any different.
He’s been wearing nail polish for several years. I remember one time at Thanksgiving my stepdad and his wife were coming over for dinner and I asked Adam if maybe he could take it off, but he wouldn’t do it.
Tatoo
Yes, it’s the eye of Horus and he says it means protection. When he was 16 he wanted a tattoo. He wanted to have the Cantonese word for “creative” tattooed on him. I told him, you don’t need to label yourself to be creative. Instead, I got a canvas and got a neighbor to spell out the word in Cantonese, and I painted it for him and gave it to him for his 17th birthday. He still has it in his bedroom.
Most proud of?
I’m so blown away by how well he conducts himself in interviews. He always seems to say the right thing. And a mom always loves to hear people say how impressed they are with his ability to be a true, real person and how sincere he is when he talks to people. He doesn’t love TMZ or the paparazzi, but he loves his fans.
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#1 by missmcglambert1982 - July 16th, 2009 at 15:38
It made me cry reading that Leila was crying!! He is such an inspiration to all of us and I think the tour brought it home to her how much he is loved and adored. Our lives will never be the same and I am glad Adam has come along in my lifetime – rawk on Adam!!!!!
#2 by Jane416 - July 16th, 2009 at 20:55
I’ve said it before on several sites: You can tell what a great up-bringing Adam has had by how polite, thoughtful, open and forthcoming he is. His parents have done a wonderful job in raising him right.
Leila sounds like a lovely person and I was so impressed with her appearances on AI and how supportive she is of Adam. I thank her so much for bringing Adam into our world!
#3 by Cate - July 31st, 2009 at 10:45
He looks like his mom! She’s so pretty! I just love that he has such a wonderful mother to support him and be there for him b/c it’s gonna be tough getting used to his new life. thanks for posting.
#4 by leilani aloha - August 2nd, 2009 at 14:54
Adam’s mother’s love for Adam is the greatest love of all:)
:):)
Love them both
Rock on Adam!!!
#5 by Kate - August 19th, 2011 at 21:18
I love u Leila and I just understand that Adam has a great mom that always want to support him I love u both and I proud both of u
I wish both of u will be very successful in your hole life
#6 by Kate - August 19th, 2011 at 21:21
sorry Mrs L I ask u this Q but are u christian?(because of your name)